Dateline – Seattle, Washington
So this is 62… Doesn’t feel a lot different from 61… or 58. It does feel significantly different than 44. The joints hurt more. I’m not as able to adjust positions rapidly and getting up and down from the floor is much more of an adventure than it was in the past. That’s what a generation’s worth of time will do to you. In another generation, should I survive that long, I will be experiencing my 80s and that seems like completely foreign territory and something about which I do not want to spend time contemplating at this phase of life. I may be here, I may not. If I remain on this side of the dirt, I hope my mental faculties remain relatively intact even if the joints have completely given way. I’ve been adjusting around those for quite some time now.
Seattle continues to roll out the red carpet in terms of terrific weather. High 70s/low 80s, sunny, no humidity to speak of. I’ll take it. So far I’ve had a lovely walk around Green Lake with Debbie Douglas and Thomas E. Davis, lunch on Lake Union with Lauren Marshall, a night at the opera (Barber of Seville) with Paula Podemski, brunch with my editor and publisher Steve Peha, and a birthday dinner en familie (most of whom are not on Facebook with the exception of my father Alyn C. Duxbury). It’s been a lovely time and I’ve been able to do some decompressing away from the every day pressures of UAB, Birmingham VA, and all of the other things that keep me on my toes in my usual day to day life.
I have had something over 500 birthday well wishes so far today. I read and respond to them all. I do this because every name as it scrolls by means something to me. Someone I shared a stage with either once or multiple times over decades. Someone I worked with and beat my head into the wall with the continuing unsolvable problems of geriatric medicine. Someone whom I shared educational experiences with from elementary school forward. Someone who helped me through the difficult times of widowerhood with the gift of presence either in person or on line. Someone whom I have never met but whom social media randomly threw together and who has become a touchstone of one sort another. Someone who is an international opera name. Someone who has no fame outside of their personal circle of acquaintance. Someone who once meant the world to me until our lives diverged. Someone who is a casual acquaintance at best. They all make up this crazy quilt tapestry of life and every year when the greetings pour in (made easy through the tools of social media) I reflect at least a bit on the fact that maybe my existence and my work has meant something on some small scale. Now if only a few more of you would buy one of the books. It would make my publisher happy.
Enough navel gazing on my part. It will all roll around again in May of 2025. Maybe not with a surprise phone call from my best friend from childhood Brock Hanson whom I had not spoken to in three or four decades but who called me out of the blue this morning with birthday greetings, but with something equally unexpected. I was talking this morning to my publisher about next steps with the writing career. How do I get the next book to flow in a brain dump so that it can be properly organized into something reasonable. Should I think about a warts and all memoir which includes all the things left out of The Accidental Plague Diaries (of which there are many). Should I move forward with turning APD into a theatrical monolog and test it out. No firm decisions were reached but there are things germinating and maybe something will start falling out onto paper. Watch this space.
Covid continues to evolve as all life does. The latest variants, which have been dubbed with the highly improbable name of Flirt (which I assume is an acronym for something but I’m too lazy to google and find out exactly what) are spreading as they are out competing the omicron JN.1 variants from this past winter. Wastewater studies show Flirt is spreading but how far and how fast is unclear as we’ve dismantled all of the rapid response systems that gave us epidemiologic data in real time. Hospitalizations and deaths do not appear to be going up at this time so we’re probably still in a reasonable holding pattern. It very much remains out there. I continue to advise vaccination as those with full vaccination status are 85% less likely to require hospitalization and are far less likely to develop long Covid. My niece missed my birthday dinner this evening as she currently has it. She’s fine but we decided it was best that she not be around my 91 year old father or my sister who, to our knowledge, has never been infected and would like to remain that way.
The rest of the news, on this joyous day, remains relatively depressing. The left wing continue to show that they have no idea how to differentiate a religion, a citizenship, or a political stance from each other suggesting a lack of critical thinking skills. The right wing were busy applauding a candidate who appears to have been endorsing cannibalism at his most recent rally which also suggests a lack of critical thinking skills. In all those years of writing Politically Incorrect Cabaret, I could never have made any of this up. Perhaps I should, like Miss Havisham, retreat into my abode with my memories and an avoidance of the modern world. I’ll just skip all the rotted food.
Tomorrow promises more merry sunshine and some time with my sister in her garden which should be soothing. Tra la!